There’s a time in most lives when opinions, especially political ones, can strain friendships. As the upcoming presidential election gets closer, discourse concerning political stances may present itself. But above all else, please don’t let this be a reason why friendships end.
There is virtue in democracy. To know that in the democracy in which Americans live, there is no right or wrong to a political opinion. This column is written for those who identify with any part of the multi-party political system, whether of the age to vote in this election or not.
In classroom settings, students often challenge one another’s political opinions, but then the class is dismissed, and the two leave like nothing happened. But in cases of friends who have known each other for years, and who may have group chats they frequently message in, it is often harder to graze over such conversations that easily.
As election season has commenced, one might find themselves in conversations with friends that pertain to voting. And it has possibly made things awkward if political views don’t align.
Generally, people rely on those closest to them, who are not blood-related to them, to provide advice, hug them, or make them laugh so hard it’s difficult to breathe. In building relationships, people open their minds to being assured of another alternative by welcoming input.
It’s important to acknowledge that one’s opinion is their opinion. An opinion is a constructed viewpoint based on one's morals, judgment, and perspective. Even as young adults, it’s key to remember that mindsets expand as they are challenged.
As a differing opinion is discussed, the conversations lean to be more receptive and engaging. There is a productive aspect to discussing opinions opposite of one’s own. Should it result in an overwhelming amount of conflict between friends, a new perspective can develop a new understanding.
Conflict in a friendship is OK. The beauty of a friendship is that two people are simultaneously growing, expanding, and taking the time to come back together. In keeping friendships together there should be mutual respect and the ability to move forward after strife.
In an article by Psychology Today, Todd B. Kashdan, Ph.D. said, “I do not remove people from my life because they possess belief systems that fail to mirror my own. Our friendship predated the presidential election.”
This recognizes the appreciation that’s held toward friendships that go beyond a disagreement. Just as views differ from those of friends, Kashdan said it best. Friendships predate this upcoming election.
Within the democracy in which Americans live, people are empowered to develop their own opinions. To stand, or not to stand, for a party that they believe aligns with their rights and freedoms. Thus, there are times when friends are going to disagree with one another’s political opinions.
So, as this upcoming election gets closer and the topic of political opinions arises between friends, remember that the relationships that have been built do not need to end because of conflicting opinions.
Daphne Graeter is a junior studying journalism at Ohio University. Please note that the views and opinions of the columnist do not reflect those of The Post. What are your thoughts? Let Daphne know by emailing her at dg422421@ohio.edu.
